Delight. Each of us experiences delight when the dreams and desires of our hearts are realized. Though these desires vary depending on the person, the desires of our hearts are precious to us nonetheless. We want to see our dreams realized.
In Psalm 37:4, David writes, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart” (ESV).
This verse has been an encouragement to many. I know it has to me when I felt called to serve in music ministry as a newer believer, but I wasn’t sure if it was okay to use something for God that I enjoyed so much. Silly to think of my reasoning when I look back, but when more than one person shared this verse with me the day after I was asked to help more in music ministry, I was greatly encouraged.
Nonetheless, it’s important to filter our desires through God’s wisdom, counsel and will. We can’t always assume that something we want is also equal to what God wants. Unfortunately… that’s not always true.
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The Desires of Our Hearts?
This verse has been used and abused, probably throughout all of history since it was first read or sung by someone other than its writer, King David. Some twist Psalm 37:4 to mean we can have anything we want or long for. But God knows best and we often do not.
Because of the Fall (when Adam and Eve committed the very first sin), every human’s desires are tainted by sin and selfishness. However, when we become Christians and begin delighting ourselves in the Lord, our desires will reflect God’s desires increasingly.
Delighting in the Lord means we delight in His will: We want to honor God in every area of our lives. We seek His wisdom and direction first instead of making decisions haphazardly. We want to obey our Savior and Lord.
We won’t care so much about fulfilling our dream, getting the latest new gadget, adding to monetary or material wealth, or even absolute perfect health. Our most precious desire will be for everything in our lives to please God. Our greatest dream and ambition will be that all we go through would be used by God for His glory—regardless of whether it makes us happy and successful here on earth.
A Little Bit About King David the Psalmist
David, the writer of Psalm 37 and many others, was called a man after God’s own heart (Acts 13:22, 1 Samuel 13:14). He so delighted in God that he would not go up to the cities of Judah without consulting the Lord and His timing first. Even at the news of both Saul’s and Jonathan’s deaths, which meant David was able to be king, he first sought the Lord’s direction (2 Samuel 2).
David desired to follow the Lord’s will above his own ideas and plans. In listening to the Lord, David was made king—but only of Judah and not all of Israel… not yet anyway. This was not as important to David compared to full obedience to God’s will. He was truly a man after God’s own heart as he sought to honor God in this.
From the history we have about David, we can see that his words in Psalm 37 weren’t about God giving him whatever his heart desired. Instead the emphasis begins with “delight yourself in the Lord.”
Our Desires Are Changed When We Delight in God
When we delight in the Lord, our dreams and desires will experience transformation over time. Our desire to honor and obey Him will supersede any longing of our own. The things that are precious to God’s heart will be precious to us. We will love what He loves and hate what He hates.
Here are a few examples of what delighting in the Lord might look like:
- What God values, we will value (or at least be seeking to).
- What God does not esteem, we will no longer esteem (or be seeking not to).
- When we face trials, we will desire God’s will even if our comfort or desired outcome is not realized.
- When we are in a time of waiting, we will remember that God knows best.
- More and more, our contentment will be found in God instead of earthly things or people.
- We will seek God’s desires as we live our daily lives and pursue any goals and dreams we have for ourselves.
- We will seek to know God’s will as we pray for ourselves, others and the issues facing our world.
When we delight in the Lord and seek to surrender our dreams and desires to Him, we honor Him. We will begin to reflect Christ’s heart to others more and more, living out our lives in a way that gives Him glory. Like David, we will be people after God’s own heart. May we grow in the desire to honor God in every way and walk it out daily.